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Women love ambitious men and detest being a man’s life but prefer being identified as part of it. They want to tag along with a man as he saunters about life living his exciting, adventurous life.

A woman would not want to be the centre of a man’s life. Alpha males treat women not as the centre piece of their lives but as an accessory.

Alpha males are always too busy chasing ambitious goals than waste excessive amounts of their time on women.

Next to your woman, misinterpret things that she says, slip in sexual innuendos and word play and act like a little kid teasing each other in the playground replete with sexual undertones and sexual proclivities.

The single most unattractive traits of a man to women is insecurity, feelings of inadequacy, a lack of confidence and neediness.

The catch-all-phrase or trait that makes women unlock their legs is a man’s confidence.

Alpha males are cocksure of themselves. They are proactive and constantly knock women off their pedestals by easily ruffling their feathers. They playfully disrespect women and tease them. As a rule of thumb, the chubbiest play it coy.

Women are hypergamous and never want to be the prize and want the man to be the prize.

Biologically women are hardwired to be attracted to men who ooze machismo or those they feel are superior to them.

Women always project an aura of invisibility or mystical touch around men they barely know very little about. Scarce is valuable.

Being completely unpredictable captivates women far more than being a boring, lackluster old Joe Blow.

Whether it is conquering the competition, dominating a girl in the bedroom, or having a girl friend to squash a “scary” big spider or open a pickle jar, men love to show off manliness, conquer and protect.

That’s the basis why men are intensely attracted to feminine women. Women too love to feel womanly.

Women are hardwired to be instinctively attracted to a man who takes charge and leads and just want to tag along with a confident, dominant man living his exciting, adventurous life.

The single most unattractive trait in the eyes of women is not lack of six-pack abs or a single-digit bank balance but- neediness.

The allure of a man’s wealth and physical appearance matter to a certain extent but pales in comparison to 3 things in a man…confidence, poise and balance.

As a man, never be needy or get insecure and defensive as these are highly unattractive qualities.

This is why nice guys finish last and bad boys have women drooling or lining up outside their door. It is why jerks get the damn girls and why poor old Billy gets friend zoned.

Women are into men that other women are marooned to. Picture when a man walks into a club bedecked in the arms of a beautiful woman and with a hush thumb, all of a sudden, every other girl cannot keep their eyes off the grid but him.

This works if you are preselected by attractive women. Having some fat uggo chasing after you will have the opposite effect.

A man’s physical attractiveness plays insignificant role in a woman’s attraction than a woman’s physical appearance effect to men. That’s why you will see hot and trendy blondes seemingly with ordinary looking guys.

Women are not attracted to men with big muscular tendons and flattering clad in the same way as men are attracted to women with big tits, luscious legs and glass-hour shape.

“ When you are trying to impress people with words, the more you say, the more common you appear, and the less in control. Even if you’re saying something banal, it will seem original if you make it vague, open-ended and sphinx-like.
Powerful people impress and intimidate by saying less. The more you say, the more likely you will say something stupid or christened foolish. Less is more”.

The person who appears to put the least amount of effort out, while getting the largest amount of effort returned to him by others, comes across as the most socially powerful.

Don’t over invest yourself in any woman. Instead, invest just enough for her to feel comfortable investing herself in you. The more she invests in you, the more attracted to you she becomes.

James Mwenda
Geneva, Switzerland. 🇨🇭